Author Archives: Gordon Dahime

About Dahime Gordon

Dahime Gordon, originally from Brooklyn, NY is a proud member of the big girl club. During her pastime she enjoys writing, and relaxing on the beach for inspiration. For her, the three “F’s” (food, fun, and friends) are a MUST. Currently residing in Los Angeles, she is working on several literary projects with the goal of completion by the end of the year.

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Testing the Waters

Testing the Waters

I think we play too many games when it comes to dating. Of course, I’m one to wear my heart on my sleeve, so this could very well be why I’m single at this present time.  I am aware there is no formula for love and you have to date to find it.

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We can’t afford to be silent!

We can’t afford to be silent!

Imagine a call in the middle of the night. The caller says something terrible thing has happened to your college aged child and they need you to come down to the local police station to discuss the matter further.

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Black Women & Dating

Black Women & Dating

Last week Nightline aired a segment titled, “Why Can’t a Successful Black Woman Find a Man?” This is the second airing of this topic and many of my friends have boycotted the second one because they thought the first one made us appear desperate.

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Definitions Of Beauty

Definitions Of Beauty

The Oscars are waaaay over but what are people talking about? Not the fact that Precious did better than anticipated, not the fact that it was slated to go straight to dvd until Oprah and Tyler Perry got behind it, oh noooo that’s not important.

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Believe In Love

Believe In Love

Ahhhh, Valentine’s day, has come and gone. I asked myself what does that really mean? To some it means that they will go out of their way to show their love and affection and in a matter of 24 hours they will turn off that flowing river of love and prepare for it to return next year.

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Invisible.

Invisible.

The other day I was walking with one of my friends and a good looking man walked quickly pass us to hold the door as we were coming up the walkway. At that moment, I said to myself “chivalry in Los Angeles does exist.”

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